If you have a vulva and love reading steamy scenes one handed, I want to share some of the best body-safe and quality sex toys for romance readers with you. I’ve included some of my favorites including impact play toys, lubes, and a waterproof blanket too for easy clean up. 😉
As you may know, sex toys can be amazing for pleasuring yourself, getting multiple orgasms, and experimenting with yourself and/or your partner.
So get ready to scream as you hit multiple orgasms with these amazing sex toys reading your favorite scenes! Most come with a 1 year warranty and can be stored discretely—bonus!
Best sex toys for romance readers
1. We-Vibe Melt by We Vibe.
Whether you are new to sex toys or experienced, I highly recommend the Melt for amazing toe curling clitoral stimulation. It’s easy to use, waterproof, made of soft silicone, and comes with a 2 year warranty.
Why? Because of We-Vibe Melts small size, the unique shape of the mouth, and a wide range of air pulsation intensities are perfect whether you like to start slow and gentle, or ramp up to intense suction and vibration. The pulsation intensities range from very low to super high.
Love nipple play? The oval head is just right for sucking your nips too. Oh, and because of the shape of the handle, it makes it much easier to hold and control from many different positions.
Even better, We-Vibe Melt comes with an easy-to-use remote app that when connected, can be controlled from anywhere in the world from a partner or your phone. The app has a variety of vibration patterns and intensities to choose from, so you can switch things up whenever you want to.
Honestly, if I had to recommend one clit toy for vulva owners, this would be the one. It’s great for pinpoint stimulation, used with a partner for sexy times, and perfect for most body types. A favorite of mine!!!
2. Inya Rose Toy by NS Novelties.
Another favorite of mine, you’ve probably seen this Rose suction toy all over Social Media, especially on TikTok. In fact, it’s an affordable sex toy that over delivers for how much it costs.
Made of silicone, this Inya Rose clitorial sex toy has 3 different suction intensities and 7 patterns to choose from. The suction intensities start really high, so if you want to buy a sex toy that starts low, skip this one.
But if you like to live on the wild side, or are short on time, this Inya Rose air pulse toy can have you coming in seconds. It goes from 0 to 100 very quick, so if you are into forced O’s and edging, this one will become your new BFF and leave your legs shaking.
The first 3 speed settings are like this:
1. WOAH, Holy Shiiiit.
2. OMG – Remember to breathe while you O!
3. There is no thought for this one because you will be incapable of brain function and leave your body from how strong the orgasms are.
3. Pillow Talk Sassy by BMS Factory.
With a curved head, rumbly vibrations, and a quiet sound when in use, this Pillow Talk g-spot vibrator is great for adult romance readers of all ages. It’s not huge, so it works great for most vulvas and the rumble is comparable to a shifter or grumpy hero grumbling into your pussy. 😉
The Pillow Talk Sassy’s curved shape makes it easy to hold, move around, and change the vibration intensity as you use it. Perfect for hitting the g-spot!
It’s made of silicone and is splash-proof, not waterproof.
4. Njoy Pure Wand Double Ended Steel Dildo by Njoy Toys.
This curved, medical-grade stainless steel toy is amazing for g-spot stimulation, has no motors, and will pretty much last forever. All you have to do is clean and dry it after use.
The Njoy Pure Wand is weighty and double-ended with two bulbs, a small and big one, measuring 1″ and 1.5″ respectively. Both ends will give you distinct sensations too. 😉 😉
And because it’s made of steel, you don’t have to worry about what type of lube to use with it.
Sometimes referred to as the squirting sex toy, the Njoy Pure Wand has helped many people have their first squirting and g-spot orgasm experience.
Want to learn more about squirting with or without this toy?
OMG Yes has some great videos on how to, and finding the technique that will work for you. One of the practical videos even features this Pure Wand.
Again, the Njoy Pure Wand is perfect for intense g-spot stimulation. And if you like temperature play, this is your toy! It’s initially cold and warms to your body unless you warm it up first.
5. Magic Wand Rechargeable by Vibratex
Formerly known as the Hitachi Magic Wand, this OG wand is body-safe, durable, and has amazing rumbly vibrations with 4 steady speeds and 4 patterns to choose from.
The Magic Wand is the sex toy to get if you like broad stimulation for your clit and vulva. You can even attach a g-spot accessory like this one to the silicone head to turn it into a multi-purpose sex toy (highly recommend).
This vibrator wand is also great for anyone looking for sex toys that help with squirting. The only thing to keep in mind is that it’s not waterproof.
If you want a waterproof cordless wand, click here for the highly recommended Viben Sultry.
6. Womanizer Duo 2 by Womanizer.
If you’re looking for one sex toy that will give you amazing blended orgasms, this is the one! Talk about simultaneous, mind-blowing clitoral and g-spot orgasms.
The Womanzier Duo 2 is waterproof, made of silicone, has a 5 year warranty, and comes with two different sizes for the suction heads. This means you can pick a suction head that fits your body and clit.
The suction head section for the Duo 2 stimulates your clit while the rumbly vibrating arm stimulates your g-spot. Talk about the perfect combination!
You can even choose to use only the suction head, or only the vibrating arm alone. Both vibration and suction intensities range from low to super high.
Be ready to roll your eyes back with the blended orgasms from the Duo 2. A fun toy for forced orgasms!!!
7. We Vibe Nova 2 by We Vibe.
The biggest difference is that instead of a suction head, you get a vibrating head. In other words, you get two stimulating heads, one for internal and the other for external.
Even better, because this Nova 2 rabbit vibrator has flexible vibrating arms, so you can adjust it to fit your body. It’s sturdy, bends easily, and quiet when in use.
The Nova 2 provides you with dual stimulation (g-spot and clitoral), comes with a 2-year warranty, and the We-Vibe app for remote control and long distance play.
8. Mr Hankeys Toys Dildos by Mr Hankeys.
Friendly reminder, don’t let their size intimidate you when you buy a dildo from Mr. Hankeys.
Made of high quality silicone, you can use it for vaginal or anal play. They also come in a wide range of sizes (from extra small to 4XL), textures, and colors to choose from. Have a custom color in mind? Just email them.
You can also add vac-u-hole when you place your order in case you want to attach a dildo handle or a suction cup to it.
I’ve ordered from Mr. Hankeys Toys several times and the quality of their product is top notch. Their customer service is quick to respond and answer any questions you may have.
I recommend you start with 75% soft, that’s the ideal silicone softness choice for most users.
9. Satisfyer Pro 2 with Vibration by Satisfyer.
It’s one of the first suction sex toys I purchased, and let’s just say it’s a fun addition to your toy chest.
This Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 2 has both suction and vibration, a silicone head, and is cheaper than the Melt and Womanizer Premium 2. Plus a great variety of suction and vibration intensities.
If you are new to sex toys, this Satisfyer Pro 2 is the one I recommend because it’s affordable, and perfect for experimenting with what you like and don’t like.
The suction intensity can go from gentle to what I would consider medium intensity at the highest speed setting, so if you want intense suction, skip this toy and go with the Inya Rose or We-Vibe Melt.
Satisfyer Pro 2 Gen 2 is also perfect if you have a sensitive clit because of the the gentle and super low air pulse settings.
A fun sex toy for edge play, slow build up, and sensual play.
10. We-Vibe Tango X by We Vibe.
Looking for a bullet vibrator or something you can easily hide in your purse? If yes, then this small We-Vibe Tango X vibe is perfect because it’s only 4 inches long and about 1 inch thick.
Visually, this bullet vibe is about the size of a large lipstick. It comes with a 2-year warranty, is quiet when in use, and has a travel lock.
The Tango X vibrations are powerful for a bullet vibrator, and it’s one of the best for pinpoint clit stimulation. It has 8 different speed settings, some patterns, and two separate buttons to increase or decrease the vibration intensities.
11. Swan Maximum Bullet Vibrator with Silicone Grip by BMS Factory.
This bullet vibe is like the We-Vibe Tango X mentioned above. The key differences are that it has more intense speed settings and costs less. Also, the vibrating head is designed for dual purpose stimulation, both pinpoint and broad, so it’s ideal if you want a vibe like this.
The Swan Maximum comes with a silicone grip that makes it easier to hold when in use. It has one button for steadily increasing or decreasing the vibration speed, while the Tango X has 2 different buttons for this function.
12. Velvet Thruster Prime by Velvet Thruster.
Interested in a silicone thrusting dildos? How about one you can design and customize to suit your desires? Well, the Velvet Thruster Prime is exactly that and more. It’s like a small sex machine that you can design, customize to fit your needs, and carry with you in a bag.
Even better, the Velvet Thruster Prime dildo shafts are exchangeable, so you can buy different shafts to go with it. As you customize it, it has the following to choose from:
a. Multiple thruster head options with different lengths, girth, colors, and shapes. So you can switch things up whenever you feel like it.
b. Multiple base colors.
c. Multiple accessories like the Long Reach Handle for solo play, the Partner Play Handle for couples play, and a suction cup for the base.
The Velvet Thruster Prime lightweight, has 6 speeds, and thrusts up to 140 strokes per minute. Plus, the rechargeable battery when fully charged gives you up to 8 hours of play time.
Let me repeat that again, up to 8 hours of amazing thrusts!!! The only caveat is that it’s not waterproof. However, compared to sex machines, it’s not expensive.
For more Velvet thrusting dildos simply click here.
13. Womanizer Premium 2 by Womanizer.
For air pulse sex toys, the Womanizer Premium 2 is one of the luxurious and most powerful suction toys as of this writing.
Premium 2 is super rumbly, made of body-safe silicone, and has a wide range of intensities from really low to super high. It has a Smart Silence Technology, which means it stops pulsing when you move the head away from your body. Super handy if you don’t live alone.
When you buy the Womanizer Premium 2, the package comes with two heads of different sizes, so you can try both to see which one fits your body better.
14. The Swan Wand by BMS Factory.
Another fantastic g-spot sex toy, the Swan Wand happens to be my favorite of all the g spot toys I’ve tried. It’s waterproof, made of silicone, and very rumbly with up to 8 hours of play time when fully charged.
The Swan Wand has a pronounced curve with two ends, a small and big one. The bigger end gives a really nice full feeling that I haven’t found with other g spot toys yet. It’s perfect for size queens!!
The smaller end is less powerful than the bigger end, and a little bit buzzy. When you compare the bigger end to the Pillow Talk Sassy, it’s definitely more powerful and rumblier than Sassy.
If you are looking for a waterproof wand that you can use for both g spot and broad clitoral stimulation, buy this wand.
15. Womanizer Starlet 3 by Womanizer.
This air pulse toy is one of the cheaper and smaller Womanizer suction toys. It’s great if you want to explore Womanizer air pulse products without spending a lot.
16. Lovense Hush 2 by Lovense.
This t-base vibrating, silicone, and waterproof anal sex toy is one of the best anal toys out there. The Lovense Hush 2 comes with a remote control so you don’t have to worry about pushing the buttons on it to change the intensity when you use it.
You can connect Hush 2 to the Lovense app to discover more vibrating patterns, control the intensity with your phone, and for long distance remote play. For more fun, wear and let your partner control the settings.
Want to take your orgasms to another level and have your world shifted?
Use the Hush 2 along with your favorite vibrator or suction toys. Talk about body shaking, explosive, and toe curling orgasms from another world. The vibrations are very strong so start on the lower settings.
Now if you are new to anal play, please go with the smaller sizes. You will thank me later.
17. Njoy Pure Plug by Njoy Toys.
If you want a body-safe and super smooth stainless steel butt plug, this is the one to buy.
The Njoy Pure Plug is weighty, comes in different bulb sizes from small to extra large, and will last forever if you take care of it. And like the Njoy Pure Wand, you can use it with any type of lube. It’s not super long, so if you want something longer, certainly get one of Mr Hankeys dildos.
As you can see from the picture above, the Njoy Pure Plug has a secure T-base so you don’t have to worry about it getting sucked in and taking a very embarrassing trip to the ER. It will stay in place and not pop out when in use. The bigger the size, the more stuffed you will feel.
You can even wear the Njoy butt plug comfortably for longer time periods, like when you are out and about doing errands, shopping, etc.
Sex toys for the pain enthusiast
If you like impact toys, then add some of the silicone paddles from Tantus. Their paddles range from stingy to thuddy, and in between.
Tantus also has other sex toys from dildos to butt plugs and many more. Click here to see some of the Tantus dildos.
Wooden Paddles by Miss Rose Creations.
If you prefer wood to silicone for your impact toys, then Miss Rose has everything from stingy to thuddy wooden paddles. Her paddles are made from exotic woods so be ready to be wowed. I mean who wouldn’t want to be spanked with 300 year old wood?…okay that sounded better in my head.
Another fun way to experience a different kind of orgasm is to place a nipple clamp on you nipples while you pleasure yourself. Just make sure you don’t leave them on for more than 10 minutes.
For super intense nipple clamps, I’ve found the Master Series Black Japanese Clover Nipple to be great.
For a milder nipple clamp, this one from Sportsheets will do.
2 Sex toy essentials you will need
When picking lubes, avoid anything that has glycerin in it. Also, only use water-based lubes for your silicone sex toys so your toys can last longer.
Both are great!! This is coming from someone who is super sensitive with perfumes and products and reacts to laundry detergent. These are the lubes I have found to be safe and effective that doesn’t mess with my PH.
Don’t want to worry about your bed, couch, car (I’m not judging) getting wet?
Get this waterproof blanket because it’s easy to use, fits nicely in a washing machine, and is available in different colors and sizes.
Probably go with the XL and grab an extra so you don’t have to wait for the other one to be clean before you have some messy fun!
Plus, you can even wash it with your clothes, so no need to do a separate wash. Drying is also easy as you can dry it in the dryer as well.
That’s it for now!
I hope next time you want to read one handed, a toy on this list of sex toys will be your next battery operated friend. 😉
To read a book that has steamy scenes with sex toys, check out our romance novel, In The Grey by A. M. Kusi. It’s available to read on all retailers.